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*Sigh* [May. 4th, 2009|04:54 pm]
Bad Girl
So it looks like the search for a new play partner is not going well. There was a prospect virtually lined up who just dropped off the face of the earth for a month.


It seems like the only guys interested in regular, kinky, dirty-ass sex (pun intended) are either flaky, retarded, drug addicted, ugly, obese, or old enough to be my grandfather, or any combination.

I even got desperate enough to put an ad on craigslist, which I don't recommend, looking for a play partner. I was very explicit about what I wanted, and what I was prepared to offer, and I got probably a hundred responses, some that even started "on your knees now bitch." No, really. Probably about 10 at least. I can count on one hand the number that were so much as spelled correctly, and I think two of those who even bothered to read the e-mail.

*histrionic sigh*

So, I need advice. Where can I find a non-ugly, non-crazy, somewhat experienced guy to dominate the hell out of me on a regular basis, who will not flake out, doesn't use drugs, and isn't a senior citizen? In exchange I will offer frequent, freaky sex, anal, deep-throating, and the ability to use just about any implement of evil on my ass on a somewhat regular basis.

(first person to say AFF, craigslist, or lavalife gets banned!)

[User Picture]From: erthdic
2009-05-05 03:01 pm (UTC)

I may be way off...

I think there needs to be some kind of relationship between master and slave that goes beyond the play. I'm not talking about dating but that you approach this search as you would making any new friends.
When I worked in an S&M shop, there were various pamphlets left on the counter for either parties or groups of S&M folks. It was called the Whipping Post and fairly low buget, I'm pretty sure it was printed on someone's home computer. Anyway, I would always reccomend the info to anyone in the shop asking where to go and what to do.

Nothing like that in your area? Maybe you could start one. There are always more interested parties than you think in any large city. I would start at any S&M toy store/adult book store, just get a feel for the places, talk to the employees, see what they've heard of.

Anyway, that's my non-website idea.
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